You cant please everyone all of the time but dont be afraid of change nor sticking with what you have if it works. Today I was looking at the old UK Wireplay forum archives from 8 odd years ago and the sarcastic and venomous posts generated were much more hostile than i see here today which either shows the maturity of USAAC users or an iron rod style mod team and tbh i don't know either way.
I would say if you don't like it then create your own forums/ community and if your system is the real deal others will follow, or you can get involved and stop trying to stir the pot, ive seen forums die in the past because the community moved on to pastures new and it worked where as UK AA club has weathered many a flame-war. Remember its you, the people who make the community, whether you control the banner adds or not (which i havn't noticed here tbh.)
Listen, discuss, evaluate and make your posts shorter ffs
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